Mens brains versus womens brains

 Mens brains versus womens brains. I watch this youtube video once (I will include the link below) anyways this youtube video is of a comedian entertaining his audience with his comedy routine. Have you ever heard the saying “it’s funny because it’s true”, good because this skit was beyond funny because it is so true.  In this comedians show here you used a visual display to explain the difference in men and women’s “brains” in their ways and method of thinking. On one's display he has the man’s Brian demonstrated with boxes. When men think we are usually organized by topic. For example he says when we’re at work we go to our “work” box and we open it and we don’t think outside of the box.  When we go home we close the work box and open the evening box. We are in the world we open. Men often don’t open more than one box at a time. Women however he illustrates as a big knot of yarn, all twisted and tangled in itself. Women are thinking about everything all at the same time, emotions and thoughts are just firing up everywhere. When men go to the grocery store they go in get what they need and get out. Women look at everything and analyze everything. 

This skit is exaggerated a little but it’s funny because it’s true. You can’t watch this skit without laughing. 

This is just one example of the differences between men and women. 

Today in marriage and family relationship class we talked about the things married couples need to aware of, the many differences between men and women.

Kindergarten cop starring Arnold Schwarzenegger has a scene where the kindergarten discuss the differences between girls and boys, "Boys Have A Penis And Girls Have A Vagina." Me point being that at a very young age we all are mostly aware of the physical differences between gender. In marriage our differences make making a family possible. Men’s sexual organs are all mostly exterior and a women’s interior. Knowing this isn’t anything new, but it highlights our differences. 

Another difference we will run into in our married life is specifically our sexual love life. In our sexual love life men and women are just as different as we are physically but we l when we take it in account then it’s those differences used correctly that make a happy family. For example let’s start with sexual desire. A woman will typically want to have sexual intercourse when she knows their relationship is good, healthy, in other words intercourse is a reward for having a strong relationship with their spouse. Contrarily men tend to think that having sex will produce a happy marriage. It’a exactly the opposite of the way women’s thinking. Men sometimes think sex is the action and happy relationship is the reward. Women will be more likely to desire sexual relationships when she feels safe and comforted and contrarily men will have sexual relationships to feel safe and comforted. Obviously scenarios can be situational and change but this is the often time way of thinking between men and women according to studies. 

Sexual relationships also have huge differences in the dynamics and science of the act. Men are aroused and climax faster than women do. This is for a reason I believe. Family is all about one another, if this is the case then why shouldn’t sex follow the same principle. Just like a family true joy comes from serving and loving one another. Love is selfless not selfish. When you’re married, taking time to find out those things that make your spouse happy will in return make you happy. I argue that taking time to realize the differences in each other will strengthen us. Refer to the quote “Strength lies in differences, not in similarities” love is not selfish it is selfless.